Lots Of Ranting...

So today, I kind of walked into this without thinking about it. I showed my Mom, the post, that is going around about what Bill Cosby had to say about what he thinks this world is coming to. And even though I agree with some of the things that he said, and I knew she would, I didn't know that it would turn into this almost thirty - fourty five minute one sided rant about God, Gay's, Boy Scouts, and how she thinks all this should be. Although Dad did say that she was right, but I didn't say much of anything other then, I didn't say that they was, I didn't say that he did, and  hmm that's about all I said the whole time.

Note, that yes, she is set in her ways. And I understand this. I don't really try to change her way of thinking, and her and I will NEVER agree on some things. But it would be nice, if she actually saw somebody else's view. Instead of just her self righteous judgmental state of mind. But that's like talking to a wall, trying to get her to see other people's point of view.

Now, before I get anywhere with this blog, I would like to say, that I in no way, agree or disagree with either side, gay's or straights. I would prefer to stay neutral to all of this.

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My sister in law and her got into the conversation the other night apparently, something to do with God killing off kids, I don't know. Anyway, how this got started, is I asked her how I missed her going off on my sister in law, and she proceeded to tell me how and what the conversation was about.

Apparently the boy scouts have let gay kids, in the scouts. And apparently according to her, that is wrong. However, I do not see how that could be wrong, their kids, what are they going to do seriously? I don't see how not letting gay people run the thing is going to solve anything, either. But that's just my opinion. She went from that to God and how God has been wiping kids from the planet because of how the PARENTS teach them, I understand she has her views, and ways of teaching her kids, and she tried for years to push her beliefs and views on us.

But because parents are teaching their kids, how to be acceptance of Gays and thing's going on in the society, that that is a bad thing, and therefore God is wiping the earth of kids, because of the people that are teaching their kids. She thinks they should be teaching the kids, the old ways, that things like what goes on now days is not acceptable, and how gays are suppose to be bashed, because they are against God. And these people have no morals or values because of how they are teaching their kids.

Now I understand that some of them do not have morals or values because of things that they are teaching their kids to be okay, that I myself are no okay, but that does not mean that gay people are bad, and that gay people deserve to be bashed, twenty four seven for the way their sexual preference is. Things like teaching your kids that alcohol is a way to cope with any situation and that drinking off and on during the day when your watching toddler's is okay, and that there is no God, and that having kids, think that having a boyfriend/girlfriend is acceptable at the age of two-ten is okay. And how some people think that they need to be having kids, when they can't even take care of themselves, because they except others to take of them, what do they think that those people should be taking care of their kids to?
Those are some of the issues, I have with parent's teaching their kids, but at least they ain't my kids, because I wouldn't be teaching them things like that. Sex under age is not okay either, neither is smoking illegally. But we won't get into that, cause this post would be a lot longer, then I know it already is, or taking alcohol to school.

Gay people are not the problem, what is so wrong with wanting to have some freedom's that Straight people have? What is wrong with letting them have the right to marry the one's they love, so they can also have the benefits of things that Straight people get also? It's not like those same people are telling the Straight people that they can't have those things, that their telling the straight people that they shouldn't get married or be with somebody they love, because of their sexual preference. So where is okay that most straight people think that is okay to bash the people that want those freedom's because of THEIR sexual preference?

There are some gay people out there, that do try to force the way they are on you and how they believe on you, but NOT ALL, gay people are that. There are quite a few of those other gay people that don't force their belief's and how they are on you that you do not see in the news, making a stand for what they believe in, because they believe that is forcing you to see how they see. But still hope that maybe one day there will be someone to see how their point of view from it, and maybe allow them to have what they need. What is wrong with adding in the law that gay people can have as much legal right to their spouse in hospitals and emergency situations that straight people do? What is wrong with letting them get married to the one they love, if that is what they want to do? So it doesn't agree with your religion, does everything have to be about religion? And the way you see that religion?

That is why they call it YOUR opinion because it is the way YOU see it not the way everybody see's it. Does your opinion and your view have to be forced on the whole nation because you think it is right? How do you have a government and please everybody? There should be a law or something about this, stating that people in power, can't in force their opinions on those that aren't in power, but that is another subject completely.


And why is it because people have their way of doing thing's right now, that I am in the wrong, because I neither agree or disagree with it? How is it that I have no moral's or values because I won't say that yes, you're right, we shouldn't let gays be here, or do things, because of their sexual preference? I have quite a bit of moral's and values even if they are hard to see sometimes.

Why can't those people see the other side of things? Instead of just their view of things. Does that mean that I agree with both sides, because I see the point of view from both gay and straight people's side? No, because I refuse to take a side, how does that group me in the wrong side, because I have no specific view on either side of it?

How can they see their daughter, sibling, as something wrong because of how I have felt about people? Yes I can say that I have had feelings about men, I wouldn't exactly say that I have actually fell in love with a man yet. Not technically, but feels yes. I can also say that I have been in love with a few women. Does that count for something? That isn't about straight or gay. That there are people out there, that see love for love, no matter the gender of that person? Or am I just crazy?

How does she see only the evil and none of the good in things anymore? How can she still call herself a christian after that? Christianity has changed in a lot of ways, doesn't mean it's a bad thing, doesn't mean that it's wrong, doesn't mean that I'm wrong, or She's wrong, or whoever. It just means that it's more accepting to things.

How would people feel if all the gay people did to the straight people, what the straight people are currently doing to the gay people? It isn't right either way, the way I see it, we're all human being's whether, we're gay, or straight, or bi, or see love for what it is no matter what. Gay people are part of society, even with their sexual preference. Why does it always have to be about somebody's sexual preference? Why exactly is it about that? What about all the bi people (Not trying to start anything, just trying to make a point). Are we in the wrong, because of how we feel? Why can't the issue be about something else for once. Something important?

Most people say that they ain't prejudice or judgmental, or being a bigot towards them, because of how their opinions are, but how can't they see that is exactly how their being? How can people condemn other's for their sins, and whatever else their doing. And do nothing about their own?
How is that not being judgmental?

In the end all it comes down to is, we're all human being's. It doesn't matter whether we're big or skinny or black or white, or yellow or red, or if we're tall or short, it all comes down to We ARE human being's trying to find some kind of purpose for our lives, and we are trying to find somebody to love with the time we have on this earth. Why can't people see that?

I am not perfect, I have never claimed to be perfect, I have quite a few faults, sure sometimes I don't think I have any issues, with something somebody is trying to tell me, that is wrong with me. But eventually I get it, and eventually I try to learn from my mistakes. I do thing's I shouldn't just as anybody else does, but the difference between me and them, I try to learn and change from them mistakes. I don't always succeed but at least I try.

Can they say the same?